Sin, suffering and salvation are no respectors of your economic state. I remember learning that for the very first time coming to this same village 2 years ago. I met some very greedy people who had nothing, but then I met others with huge hearts. This time around I´ve seen other angles of humanity.
RICARDO:
The little boy in the picture has an older brother (11 yrs old now) by the name of Ricardo. He´s the most energetic, smart and funny kid you´ll meet around here. I LOVE HIM! Well, Monday he was just standing by some of the ladies in the team as they waited. Jokingly, I came by, put my hands to my waist and shrugged my shoulders and said, ¨What are you doing here?¨and that´s when he just took off running. It didn´t take long for me to realize how much I hurt him. Why is this ¨center of attention¨ kid so mad at me for? I was just playing around? So, I told him I didn´t mean it in a wrong way. He ran home that day and I didn´t see him again.
I told his brother to tell him that I say ¨I´m sorry¨and I even told the other ladies in the group to help me get him aside to talk to him tomorrow. Well, the next day came. I finally saw him by himself... still grumpy and depressed. I ran to him, hugged him and told him I was so sorry. I told him that my American humor doesn´t work in Honduras and that it was my fault. I asked him to forgive me. He shrugged me off and ran off telling me, ¨No, I don´t forgive you¨. What could I do? I felt terrible!
At the end of the day as we were about to leave I saw another team member, Wanda, take him aside and talk to him. All of a sudden, he walked over to me and hugged me as we posed to take a group shot. I asked him again if he forgave me and he said ¨Yes.¨ I told him I cared very much for him, that he´s special to me and that I´m glad we can joke around again. (He´s going to be a tremendous leader one day.... he already is one.) Come to find out Wanda told him that his unforgivness hurt me and that I was really sorry for what I did. Thanks, WANDA!!
OK... so that´s ONE story. Here are a few more details about the past 3 days:
Day 4
We went back to the village to finish painting some house interiors and start new ones. By the end of the day we had 11 houses done. My mom and I led another session for the ladies. We played a game to see what woman could blow the biggest bubble with her 2 pieces of Double Bubble. That was funny. Then my mom gave a really good lesson on forgiveness - a HUGE lesson for so many of these women who were and still are being abused by so many. There were still babies and toddlers everywhere making noise. My mom struggled to keep her concentration. But at some pivital points, you could here a pin drop. So, praise God! It was all good. Return to hotel. Crash into bed - end of Day 4.
Day 5
Sleep IN! Eat breakfast, wrap up gifts for kids to hand out Friday, hop on bus, drive 1 hour to home for girls. This house had 7 girls who used to be in an orphanage, but who aged out. An American girl from Ft. Myers (I think) opened it and helps these girls finish high school and get into college. All but the younger two spoke very good English too. One of them may even come to the states for college. We ate lunch there and then took them to the beach with us for a relaxing day. It was just that.... HOT and relaxing - just like S. Fla. We then came back to the hotel, showered and went to a typical Honduran restaurant for dinner (great meat!!!).
Day 6
It was HOT today. Nice and sunny skies, but HOT! I have a really bad farmer´s tan (sorry, no pics of the that...lol). We had a morning session for the ladies. Today we played a game with lollipops and used the wrappers in the lesson. My mom did her classic ¨Thermometers and Thermostats¨ lesson, but using the acrostic POP. Mothers are to have POP in their home - Peace, Obedience and Perdon (Forgiveness). The ladies loved it. They´ve all been asking for copies of all the lessons. We painted some more houses today and put up curtain rods and shelves for the families. In total I think we´ve done 18 homes with 10 of them having shelves. That´s it for us, though. We´re leaving the supplies behind so they can finish the work.
At 3 o´clock we invited the women to come back and train briefly for some evangelism we were going to do. We taught them how to use the EvangeCard (Like the EvangeCube... but on bendable paper). We then stocked up 8 teams of 2 or 3 ladies and gave them bags of corn/flour, a wash cloth with a Christian message on it and a tract. Almost every team had a ´gringa´ with them. We walked to the next village to share gospel and had a good time. My teammate and I even went to a farm where a nearby cow shared his affection towards us by peeing on the cement while we were talking. I thought it was a hose of water!
All in all, it was a productive but EXHAUSTING day! The sun just sucked the life out of us, but we´ve all eaten, showered and are ready for bed.
Tomorrow´s the last full day here. We´ve got some nice things planned. I´ll probably write again when I get home on Saturday.
Thanks again for your prayers. Besides some minor scratches and migranes, the team is doing well and we know it´s because we´re backed up spiritually.
We´re all learning that humans are humans but that God´s love surpasses not just culture but language. A hug and a smile go a long way... no matter where you are.
Mary & Martha´s Excellent Adventure has been JUST THAT!
May adventure live in your daily lives as well.
God bless you,
Ruthie